Hobby is a kind of thing that can improve the quality of life, and at the same time, it is also a kind of distinguishing function. Those who find their hobbies and stick to them have a different style, so they become ordinary but unusual people or become yoga instructors who look up to others than table tennis champions.
When I was a big boy, a 60-or 70-year-old grandfather who played erhu in the north gate of our school hurt his arms and legs and put a small cardboard box in front of the stool. You order a song, and he plays it for you for two dollars. Often, he plays a song for you. After the moon is reflected, onlookers will involuntarily put five dollars into his box. Many beggars around the school beg, but he makes the most money every day.
The old man’s specialty, more precisely, hobby, can save lives when he earns enough money for his living.
If you are quickly overwhelmed in the crowd, find a hobby from now on and see if it works for a few years.
Chapter 2 Confusion is whether talent matches dreams.
Talent varies from person to person. Great talents can even eat something, while ordinary talents are mostly small talents. It takes a lot of sweat and hard work to make a little progress, but even if they can make a little progress every day, people will never be confused. On the contrary, those who look down on or regard small progress will be really confused. Those who don’t know their talents will be really confused.
Poverty is not terrible, but poor thinking is the most terrible.
Poverty can easily make a person’s eyes tilt, but poverty can also easily shape a person. The key is not to immerse yourself in poverty and think about everything.
When a Datong of mine first met her, she thought she was a good person, who would take care of people without losing her temper. Later, she told me that in fact, the main reason for my good personality was that I was humble and afraid of offending anyone and being good to everyone.
I asked why you are so nice. She said shyly that my family is very poor, and most of the money comes from eating and dressing badly. Especially when I saw so many beautiful people, I felt very humble. Almost everyone in the school had a smart phone, but she didn’t have a mobile phone. The only way to contact the outside world was through hearsay. The advantage of this is that she can devote herself wholeheartedly. She has also done quite well every year, and I am even happier than her when I first heard that she has won the bonus. I thought that she could use the money to buy an ordinary brain or a smart phone so that she could learn about the outside world, but a year later, she bought nothing.
One day, I asked her how to spend your bonus. She looked surprised and said how to spend it to pay off the debt. Besides, my parents had to think about borrowing money in the past. It was also a bad idea to borrow money. When the bonus was paid the next year, her life still didn’t improve. I asked her how to spend some money. She proudly said that my brother was short of money for getting married and buying a house. I gave him more than 10 thousand yuan. I said angrily that your brother couldn’t afford a house without your 10 thousand yuan. She said that of course he could afford it, but he had to lend others my money first.
In her senior year, she decided that the postgraduate entrance examination was so excellent, but other skills didn’t seem to be the way to take the postgraduate entrance examination. Because that school is better kept secret, there are not many questions and they can be bought without going through some counseling institutions, but the price is much more expensive. She morosely told everyone how to do the real questions, and others advised her that it would be much easier to spend 200 to 300 yuan to buy a set. Every time she said that it was too expensive to buy, so she spent more than a month going to the proofreading room every day to find information. She felt that this was a very fulfilling thing.
At the end of the postgraduate entrance examination, her grades can wait for the second interview notice. Normally, at this time, you have to keep staring at the brain to refresh the page without the latest news. Now she is mindless and inconvenient. She can go to the school computer room to see the school transfer information on that day, but at 2 o’clock in the afternoon, she has to send the information before 4 o’clock. That is to say, you have to finish the nap in two hours. When I woke up, I saw the news in the postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, it was already 3: 30. I called her and she said that she didn’t Let her sign up first, but I didn’t expect that the quota was full, even if the score was too high, it wouldn’t work because it was too late. She cried and complained that the school gave it too short, but she didn’t think that getting information at that key node was much more important than getting more knowledge points.
Fortunately, because of her high score, she has several good schools to adjust. She chose one in Beijing, but she was brushed up during the interview. I said, please try a few more. So many good schools can go? Her first reaction was that she spent five or six hundred dollars on this trip to Beijing and failed. She went to another school and spent money to take the exam again. What is the logic? In the face of future money, her first consideration is money. At this time, she seems to have forgotten that a year of burning the midnight oil is so high. At that time, I thought maybe her desire to study in graduate school is not so strong, and giving up is not
Before graduation, she had been preparing for the recruitment of teachers in her hometown. When chatting, I said it was good to be a teacher, which could solve the burden at home. She suddenly said, Can I take the postgraduate entrance examination while working? I’m surprised that since you wanted to go to graduate school so much, you didn’t choose a school at that time, or you stayed in school for half a year to prepare for the exam physically and mentally, so you’ll get a job. She still has money to answer. I still have to spend money as a teacher at school, and then I will be paid to support myself and take the exam again. It’s really embarrassing to spend time
Then one day, her wallet was stolen. I asked you if the bank card was in it. She said, yes, I casually asked if there was any money in it. She said, but the thief shouldn’t get anything. I don’t get 5 thousand dollars from it regularly, and then I instantly petrified.
Five thousand dollars is not regular. Five thousand dollars can be spent, so you don’t have to spend a month looking for information. This month, you may get a few more points for preparing for the exam, and you may go to several schools for a second interview. Maybe you can go to a school that is better than your first choice, so you don’t have to ask your family for money to continue preparing for the exam at school for half a year. If you succeed, of course, you can buy a smart phone for even a few hundred dollars, and you won’t miss the adjustment information when you refresh the page.
In my hometown, I think this kind of people are poor and afraid. Because they are poor, they always think about money first, but the more they think about money first, the more they lose the opportunity to earn more money.
I also have a good friend who is poorer than her. No, she doesn’t get much bonus, but he invested the money in his own. That year, he decided to take the Beijing cinema exam. He took all the money to the North. The expensive remedial class traveled to and from the school in Beijing by train for more than a dozen times, and then he took the exam once. Now he has written a film review draft less than 1000. After one year, Ji will be able to replenish his family with the rest of the money. Many people say that a school like Beijing Chinese Opera is a rich boy, but my good friend, who is completely poor, is not afraid at all.
Poor people always talk about the unfairness of this world, but the root cause is that they have chosen to limit their material foundation again and again and make the greatest achievements. It is only when we really want to think about enriching material wealth that no matter how rich people are, the pattern will decline one day. To a great extent, the size of the pattern determines how our life will move towards less and win more. Making money is much more important than saving money.
Although money is a kind of poverty thinking, it is also a deep-rooted poverty thinking mode, that is, hating the rich.
Some time ago, a girl accused another rich girl in the dormitory of listing her dissatisfaction, mainly because she was showing off her rich boyfriend and picking her up in the car when she was a freshman. It’s shameless to put the shopping bag on the table after shopping in a big shopping mall, as if she deliberately showed it to us. We spent a month living, and the price of a dress caught us up. In a post, she vented all kinds of hatred for the girl. It seems natural for the poor to see the rich. This big girl may not know that she will meet more and richer people after graduation.
Your mentality is wrong, then everything in your eyes is definitely not much better. If we change our mentality, will Japan be much better than she is a Apple mobile phone? Can we learn more about what Jobs has achieved? What other brands are different? It seems to me that a mobile phone with different brands is always a good thing than everyone else. Samsung is like a brand-name brand when she buys clothes. Can we girls learn about a variety of women’s brands by this? Maybe we will get that brand when we go to the party in the future. The evening gift is more exquisite than her daily smoky makeup. We can also grow up with her, so few people are willing to teach you these things. Now that life has made such an arrangement, everyone hates it. On the bright side, different people can get something to nourish themselves. This is the ability.
Poverty can easily make a person’s eyes tilt, but poverty can also easily shape a person. The key is not to immerse yourself in poverty and think in poverty. Always remember that the only way to get rid of poverty is to provide for yourself from various things, which is more important than anything else.
Busy doesn’t always make you strong.
Although everything can’t be strong, strength is by no means dependent on busyness. When you are in a fast pace, you will do everything because you stop.
My friends who are strict with themselves always like to have a small or mobile phone APP around them or make a list of things to do every day in a post. Every time I finish something, I solemnly draw a tick and then give myself a big sigh of relief and reward myself with a heartfelt smile.
I really appreciate this kind of well-organized friends’ efficient planning of things, but gradually, I hear more and more complaints from them that I work so hard every day to solve all kinds of problems. What makes me lazy when I’m not with others in the end? I have more absences than anyone else, but they are promoted faster than anyone else. My friends are getting more and more angry and questioning the significance of being so busy.
Later, by chance, I saw some friends make a list of items, get up before six o’clock, cook a fine breakfast for themselves, and then finish their work efficiently when they go to class beautifully, and try not to work overtime. When they are free, they can go to find some clothes, watch news and dinner, exercise on the treadmill half an hour later, take a shower, clean their face and make a mask, and call their parents or friends before going to bed. This day looks really full, and almost every hour can be done, but they won’t talk too much.
However, this arrangement from day to day can not only improve the skin and health, but also gain nothing. Those who don’t seem to be busy every day may spend half an hour writing a diary and one hour reading other things to play around, so that they will accumulate happiness and be more busy every day, which will not help the quality of life, while those who will enjoy leisure will become stronger.
Many people are busy to cope with it, but they seem to be exhausted every day, but they are busy to cope with it without really enjoying the accumulated pleasure. They must be busy to themselves, maybe they are busy without direction, but after a period of time, this kind of busyness should become the direction quality instead of busy and busy, but too many people have been busy for more than ten years and have moved themselves to tears, but their lives have not improved.
It’s a way for this young man to go to a big city. I’ve heard many stories that make people cry and drift north, but most of them are confused. They don’t particularly want to do anything when they go to a big city, but they just think it’s a dream to realize the local quality. Attracting them means that the fast-paced life in a big city brings them a sense of busyness and mistook the sense of busyness for a sense of accomplishment. The bustling fashion in a big city is dazzling and colorful. To get these, people need to keep paying hard to get paid, which will inevitably make a person rush and push quickly. You will go to bed at nine o’clock in the evening in a small place, but in a big city, nightlife is just beginning. In a small place, people are used to staying at home on weekends, while in a big city, people will go to this activity, and the party is even busier than class.
That’s right, attracting many people to big cities is the rhythm of frequent social intercourse and seeing the world. This kind of hurry covers up all the emptiness and loneliness, leaving a dream shell. Some people will go back to small cities after a few years, because at night, they suddenly feel that they have gained something like a gyro spinning in an inconspicuous corner of the city, otherwise they will not stop to see themselves.
A moth pounces on a big city, and young people will become middle-aged one day. It is often at this time that they realize that they have flown all over the city like a fly, but they have not yet occupied a territory.
Sign in every day and punch in every day may not make people better before they are busy. Even when there are many waves, it is really strong before they become strong. It is not afraid to have their own attitude in the face of difficult achievements. This attitude is by no means trivial accumulation. It requires people to improve the quality of everything. Simply put, it is progress, not repetition
Sorry, I know filial piety is your enemy.
When you compromise again and again, it’s not filial piety, it’s that you have no ability and courage to resist, it’s your ability
My dad taught me from an early age that you should be a filial child. Filial piety means doing what your parents say. Fortunately, he just said it when I was disobedient, but he didn’t really come to train me. The more I grew up, the more fortunate I was to be able to release me. When my parents were older, I could choose my own school and accept me after graduation, so that I could not find a job silently. They didn’t give me a rich life, but they gave me the most wealth. Even my parents could not decide my life.
When I was a child, I felt that my parents were waiting anxiously outside the college entrance examination as if they were picking up and dropping off their children, but I didn’t know how different my parents were until I was 20 years old. It’s not that they have different status or wealth, but that it’s not good to say a word in front of their parents when they are raising children who are very different.